Roger, Day 4

by Lori Lavender Luz on July 25, 2009

in Surgical room 19

To get up to speed (haha, like 35 mph), see this post.

When we last saw our hero, Roger, the trauma surgeon was focused on staving off pneumonia in his “really banged up” lung. The pain meds are not giving enough relief from the chest tube (bigger than my thumb in diameter) for Roger to breathe deeply into his lungs. His breathing remains shallow, and the xray shows he is using only the top half of his lungs.

An epidural would solve the pain problem, allowing deeper breathing to take place. But his blood is not clotting perfectly, and anesthesiologists will only poke holes in the spines of people who have perfect scores on clotting factors. Picky, picky.

The best we can do, then, is to have Roger walk around a lot, sit up a lot, and work on his breathing exercises. He can now inhale 1750 ml of air. Today’s target is 3000.

Tessa and Reed visited today on their way to our family’s 50th anniversary celebration for my parents. The whole fam-damily (except for Roger and me) is heading to Park City for a week of recreation and togetherness.

The kids enjoyed hanging out with their Daddy, and they even helped get him up and walk him around the ward. Unfortunately, there was quite a bit of wailing when it was time for Grandma and Grandpa to get them in the van for the trip. But Mom tells me that stopped as soon as the DVD player came on. God Bless Tolkien.

Roger’s had visits from friends and neighbors. People are bringing me meals. Food shows up in my fridge, still bare from our trip last week to Boston/NY State. Offers to help and words of love are pouring in.

This kindness makes me cry more even than the situation does. I don’t know why. I am exhausted, having trouble sleeping, and raw. The idea that people have so much goodness in them just brings me to that core place where I am all tears.

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chicklet April 7, 2010 at 2:42 am

Yo dudette, mix yourself up some mojitos and read for a little. Just a little. I know you want to and need to and should be with Rob, but take a little time for yourself too – this is a lot to take in and deal with. So get even a teensy bit of “you” time, or try to.

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My Reality April 7, 2010 at 2:42 am

I hope Rob feels better each day. And idea when he may get to go home?

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PFM April 7, 2010 at 2:42 am

Oh, Lori I feel like an idiot.Hello, talk about my head in the clouds. I had no idea this was going on. I am so sorry this happened but thank goodness he is alright. Sending hugs your way.

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PFM April 7, 2010 at 2:42 am

Oh, Lori I feel like an idiot.Hello, talk about my head in the clouds. I had no idea this was going on. I am so sorry this happened but thank goodness he is alright. Sending hugs your way.

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