when what I knew was wrong

Need Open Adoption Advice?

So many parents I’ve talked with are committed to open adoption because they understand how it can help them and their children move from an Either/Or mindset to a Both/And heartset. They consequently open to contact with birth parents and all the complexity doing so brings.

Regular old parenting can get tough, but add in an open adoption component and things can get really hairy. No parenting guide can give all the answers, but once you know how to set your “parenting GPS,” you’ll know how to find your answers.

Here are question people have asked about open adoption situations.

gps for parenting via third-party reproductionMy Teen Wants to Live with His Birth Mom. Now What?

 

7 things a birth mom would do differently in open adoption7 Things I Wish We’d Done Differently in Our Open Adoption

 

dear abbyDear Abby Got it Wrong for this 13 Year-Old Adoptee

 

Dear Abby adoption questionsDear Abby is Wrong About Adoption & Birth Grandparents

 

adoption privacy vs secrecyI’m Excited to Tell Our Adoption Story, But I Don’t Wanna Violate My Child’s Privacy

 

adoption raising someone else's childWhat If It Feels Like I’m Raising Someone Else’s Child?

 

are you prickly in your open adoption relationshipsBoundaries: We’ve Been Warned by Our Agency to Be Super Cautious

 

who owns the adoption storyDo I Have to Tell My Child He’s Adopted?

 

 

mixed emotions of adoption reunionMy Son is Meeting His Birth Mom and I Have So Many Emotions About It

 

open adoption adviceWhen Should I Tell My Child She’s Adopted?

 

 

how to adopt a child fastHow Do We Adopt a Baby Fast?

 

 

passive aggressive relationshipMy Son’s Birth Mom is Being Passive Aggressive. Help!

 

core issues in adoptionMy Daughter is Hurting in Our Open Adoption. What Shall We Do?

 

aq adoption attuned parentingMy Kids Has No Adoption Issues. Is That an Issue?

 

 

adoption commercial gone wrongOK to Withhold Info from My Kiddo?

 

 

why do people lie?What Do I Do When Birth Mom Lies to My Face?

 

 

openness in foster adoptionWait. You’re Telling Me We Can Have Openness in a Foster Adoption?

 

How Can We Open Up When We’re Prickly from Being Hurt?

 

adoptee's storyWhen There’s No Birth Parent Information to Share

 

 

adoptive parenting tipsAdvice for New Adoptive Parents

 

 

when what I knew was wrongHow to Nudge a Closed Person Toward Openeness

 

 

When the Birth Father Says He Isn’t the Birth Father

 

birth fathers on father's dayWe’re OK With Letting in Birth Mom, but Birth Dad is Scary

 

adoption q & aHow to Explain Why One Child’s Birth Mother is Around and the Other’s Isn’t

 

motherless and childlessHow to Set Your GPS so it Guides You in Adoptive Parenting

 

adoption profile mistakesWhat Mistakes Should I Avoid in My Adoption Profile?

Advice on Open Adoption

The Open Adoption Advice column was accidentally launched in the spring of 2015. As I prepared for and delivered a series of webinars, I realized there was a hunger for not only general knowledge about orienting on the child, but also situation-specific information on dealing with common issues in open adoption: The profile. The Wait. Boundaries. Levels of openness. How to tell the child his story. Healing from wounds. Staying open even when it’s hard. And so on.

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