I have been working on a new project — a twice-monthly podcast dedicated to exploring the long view of adoption. While 2020 has been a remarkable one for everyone, it has also meant my first child graduating from high school. And my last child entering his senior year.
“Child” is no longer the right word to use for Tessa or Reed.
The graduation milestone got me thinking about parenting and all that I wish I’d known along the way. About what I consider to be the long view of adoptive parenting.
I am collaborating with the people at Adopting.com, who have been very supportive about a podcast oriented on the long view of adoption. My vision? To bring a variety of perspectives around topics I wish I’d known more about back in my pre-adoptive days and early-parenting years.
Over the years, so many of you in the adoption arena have helped me become a better parent to my children, a better ally with adoptees and first parents, even a better human being. I aim to bring you many of these revealers, these people who have given me a-ha moments. You’ll hear from adoptees, first parents, adoptive parents, adoption-competent therapists, adoption researchers, and others with insights about adoption’s long view.
Up first is Leah Campbell, a writer and single mom to 7 year-old “Cheeks.” Leah is author of the new children’s book, The Story of My Open Adoption — which I highly recommend. She says this is the children’s book she and Cheeks wanted, one that reflects the experience of growing up in an open adoption, one that doesn’t gloss over its complexities.
Prefer to read? Here’s a transcript.
Leah shares the joys and challenges of maintaining an open adoption with her daughter’s family and why she is committed to doing so. I know you’re going to love hearing Leah talk about centering her daughter in the many aspects of adoptive parenting.
I Ask for Your Support
Expect two episodes a month when you subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify (pending), or your preferred podcast platform. I would love your support by listening, subscribing, and sharing with those you think would benefit from tuning in. Also, let me know your suggestions of people you’d like to hear from.
I hope you enjoy this first episode. And I can’t wait for you to see who else is coming up and what we’re talking about!
Lori Holden, mom of a teen son and a teen daughter, writes from Denver. Her book, The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption: Helping Your Child Grow Up Whole, is available through your favorite online bookseller and makes a thoughtful anytime gift for the adoptive families in your life. Lori was honored as an Angel in Adoption® in 2018 by the Congressional Coalition of Adoption Institute.